Most Kenyan men rush into the institution of marriage without acknowledging the responsibilities of being a husband.

Some of the negative consequences of early marriage and its impact on personal growth, relationships and overall well-being

 Postponing marital roles allows men to focus on personal growth and self-discovery. People undergo critical developmental stages in early adulthood, shaping their identity and aspirations. By postponing marital responsibilities, men can explore their interests, continue their education, build careers, and develop self-esteem.

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This period of self-discovery promotes personal fulfilment and gives men the emotional maturity and self-awareness needed for healthy and successful relationships in the future.

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 Early adoption of marital roles can prevent a strong foundation for long-term relationships. Marriage requires a strong understanding of self, effective communication skills, and navigating conflict and compromise.

Rushing into such responsibilities before acquiring these essential qualities can strain relationships and lead to marital dissatisfaction and divorce. By deferring to marital roles, men can invest in personal growth, emotional maturity and developing important relationship skills, ultimately contributing to healthier and more fulfilling partnerships later in life.

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 Early adoption of marital roles can cause financial burdens and limit independence. Building a stable financial foundation is critical to the long-term stability of a marriage. Postponing marriage responsibilities allows men to build their careers, achieve financial independence and secure a stable future for themselves and their potential families.

By focusing on personal and professional development, men can ensure they have the resources and stability to support their partner and children, reducing financial stress and increasing the likelihood of a safe and harmonious family environment.

Taking the time to develop individuals will contribute to healthier and more fulfilling partnerships in the long run.