Media personality Shaffie Weru has expressed his concern after his 18-year-old daughter, Milan, received a marriage proposal on Valentine's Day.
Speaking on KTN's Art Of Living show, Shaffie delved into his family life and the complexities he encounters as a parent.
Milan, the firstborn daughter of Shaffie, is the result of his past romantic involvement with singer Debbie Asila. Following a brief relationship, Asila relocated to the US in 2015.
Shaffie, renowned for his charismatic persona in the media industry, affectionately spoke about his children, highlighting that they serve as the motivating factor behind his diligent work.
Reflecting on the numerous photos of his children gracing the walls of his home, he conveyed the profound bond he shares with them.
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Sharing his unease about Milan's proposal, Shaffie acknowledged feeling apprehensive about his daughter's future.
“My daughter is 18 years old, and on Valentine’s Day, she got proposed to. It’s what it is, but I am afraid,” he confessed.
While contemplating his journey, Shaffie offered insights into his relationships and his challenges.
“For 15 years, I lived with women. All the prime jobs I was in in my younger days did not allow me to be a committed man that I would have been in the relationships that I had at that time,” he disclosed.
Despite his experiences, Shaffie remains uncertain about committing to a serious relationship.
“If it comes, it comes. It is not wrong to marry many wives, but just give each of them equal responsibility,” he stated.
“I have not gone on a date with any woman for 10 years. I have gone for a movie or two, but dates, no. That also does not mean I have not dated for 10 years.”
Shaffie also expressed gratitude for his close circle of friends and family who have supported him through various challenges.
“The people I love are the ones who remind me that life is beyond being in the spotlight. Anything can happen. I lost my job, and if I didn’t have a really strong support system and people who stood by me, things could be really tough,” he said.