Something is coming out of Nadia Mukami's chest. The songbird needs males to realize that pampering a woman doesn't always mean paying all of her expenses.

Nadia expresses her opinions on the "Miss Independent" controversy, contending that just because a woman is financially secure and so "independent" doesn't mean a man shouldn't spoil her.

"A man indulging me shouldn't be a problem, even though I am a financially secure lady. Men were naturally made to provide for their families, while women were made to be pampered. People often get it wrong, but spoiling a woman doesn't mean you pay my bills, Nadia explained.


If she's your girlfriend or wife, pampering her entails taking her to a beautiful restaurant for a dinner she might not have previously experienced, giving her flowers, shoes, a handbag she likes, or gifts she enjoys. That is the primary goal of spoiling a woman. It's about more than just paying the bills, she clarified.

The singer also exhorts ladies to develop saving habits and to set the appropriate priorities constantly.

List your priorities and put money aside for them, but it's also a good idea to have emergency savings, as we say in the business. Permanently save and set aside money for unforeseeable expenses so that, if anything unexpected occurs, you have a place to start. Who could have predicted the Covid-19 and its effects? I mean, life happens," she remarked.


With her female followers, the finance graduate has been running an online savings chama where participants must save at least Sh50 per week.

"I don't get the money. You make independent savings, which you then report to us via an M-Pesa transaction message. She said we will remove you from our WhatsApp group if you don't save in three reasonable weeks.

More than 500 people are presently a part of the group.