Shorn Arwa, UK-based Kenyan content creator, has stated that she feels uneasy with her friend Nairofey reconciling with her spouse, Yeforian, following their public break up.
Shorn explained that despite what the general public might believe, she and Nairofey were still close friends.
"I hope this comes out in the most respectable way possible... Nairofey is my friend; the husband is not my friend. Because when you hurt my friend, you stop being my friend. I'm not the biggest supporter of his.
Up till this day, I still believe he is back to finish her finally. That is what I'm going to say," the new mom told with a hint of humor, highlighting that she genuinely feels that way.
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She went on to add,
"But she is still my friend...I didn't even know this guy personally. I used to see him on social media just like everyone else. This might surprise people, but I never even met him anyway.
People say I'm terrible for letting her return to her ex; Nairofey is a grown-up, the husband is an adult, and I am an adult, so that everyone can make their own decisions. They are both entitled to go online and say they are back together.
Breakups happen constantly; sometimes, people work things out and forgive each other. It is hypocritical for people to act like this is the first couple to get back together,"
However much we may have disliked the decision, the content creator insisted that, in the end, the relationship was theirs, and there was nothing she or the nation could do if the two had chosen to be together.
"I'll be lying if I come here and be like I'm cool or okay with this because I'm not. I mean as a country we had our guard up, we cried with her, we were rooting for her and all that but wueh it is not easy to come between two people when love is involved,"
Shorn continued by saying that, as outsiders, we cannot understand the inner workings of a relationship. She offered Yeforian some credit, remarking that perhaps he had changed and was trying to improve.
"Who are we to condemn them? They may be currently trying to resolve their issues, and we may be mistaken. Perhaps this time, he has come to encourage her. I could be mistaken, though, and he has come to improve her life. "But it is hard for me as a friend who saw her upset and crying and was there for her.
