Kamene Goro has responded to the backlash surrounding her recent remarks encouraging young women to date multiple partners before committing to a serious relationship.
During a live radio broadcast, Kamene opened up about her perspective on love, self-discovery, and navigating relationships in one’s youth. While her comments quickly sparked online criticism, she believes her message was largely misunderstood and taken out of context.
In her original statement, Kamene encouraged young women to keep an open mind and not confine themselves to a single romantic partner while they’re still learning about life, love, and themselves.
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“How are you going to know what you like if you’ve only kissed one frog?” she asked.
“Don’t limit yourself to one person. Allow your youth to be full of experiences, because experiences teach you. Life is the best teacher.”
She went on to clarify that her message was not about promiscuity, but about self-discovery—encouraging young women to date various people simultaneously to better understand their preferences and relationship needs.
“Date them at the same time. Not to be reckless, but to learn. How else will you know if you like movie nights or staying in? A bad boy or someone more spiritual? Explore, learn, grow.”
Kamene also pushed back against the societal pressure to settle down too soon, suggesting that early commitment might rob young women of valuable emotional experiences and personal growth that come from exploring different relationships.
“When you’re young, you can fall in love multiple times. Why deny yourself the chance to fully experience love by tying yourself to just one person?”
She emphasized that dating in one’s youth should be about understanding what kind of partner—and life—you truly want.
After a clip of her remarks went viral, Kamene faced a flood of criticism. Detractors accused her of promoting a reckless lifestyle and undermining values like commitment and stability.
In response, Kamene called out those who, she said, had taken her comments out of context.
“Everyone is out here wilding over my ‘baby girl moment,’ but have you actually watched the full video?”
“It’s being blown way out of proportion.”
Clarifying Her Message: Responsible Dating, Not Promiscuity
Kamene reiterated that her advice was rooted in responsibility and self-awareness—not irresponsibility.
“I said this should all be done within the scope of responsibility. I didn’t say go out and sleep with everyone. I said go on dates.”
She stressed the difference between dating and being sexually active with multiple partners—something she believes many critics overlooked.
“I never said go have sex with four men at the same time. I said date. That means get to know people, not sleep with everyone.”
Kamene’s clarification aimed to shift the narrative away from moral panic and toward healthy self-discovery.
“It’s important for young women to explore and figure out what they want. That doesn’t mean being reckless—it means being intentional and informed.”
Though her message has sparked debate, Kamene stands firm in her belief that young women should have the freedom to explore love and relationships on their own terms—so long as it’s done mindfully.
“Let’s stop making it seem like I’m telling young girls to be irresponsible. No. Can we all just calm down?”
While reactions remain divided, Kamene Goro continues to champion open, honest conversations around modern dating—especially for women seeking to define their own paths in love and life.
