Bongo Movie veteran actress Jackline Wolper has offered provocative advice to women seeking marriage. Wolper contends that women aspiring for marriage have the right to seek emotional solace from a mature man if they find themselves in a marriage where their husbands lack respect and mistreat them.
She further suggested that if women discover their husbands to be abusive in marriage, they should pray for their children to avoid inheriting negative traits from their father.
"My younger sister who has not entered into marriage, don't just pray to God to get married, pray that God gives you a good husband who respects and honours you, don't just pray to get married!"
"Pray for the husband you will get not to embarrass you every day. Also, pray for his offspring if you have children with him not to have the traits of their father so that they become your comfort," advised the mother of two.
For those already married, Wolper encouraged them not to endure torment if they feel mistreated in their marriages. She advised them to consider stepping out of the marriage to find solace without fearing repercussions if their legal husband discovers them. She added that in the event their husband catches them in an affair, they should take a back seat as a referee, allowing the parties involved to resolve the situation and choosing to be with the victor.
"But if you are already married and things go south, it's forbidden to cry, pray to move on right there in the marriage, have your extramarital affair so that you don't die from the stress of someone else's grown-up bearded child. The key is respect; when they meet, let them fight, and the winner stays with you," Wolper advised.
