Relationship expert benjamin Zulu has warned women against dating men who insist that they should split the bill saying that they are not serious people.
"We already said never to waste time meeting these kinds of men who are asking for 50-50 even on a meal! Either he's not serious about dating yet and that's why even a meal looks like waste, or he doesn't see your worth, or he's just a plain old miser."
"A seeking man is eager to impress and he seizes every opportunity to give. He cannot countenance a woman he came on a date with paying for her own food! That's anathema! In fact, he struggles to see her pay even when she's the one who invited him. A true man has a sense of pride and ego to be the man when he's around the woman he wants to win or one he's learning with love in sight."
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"Of course, this doesn't expose him to getting used because once he senses that you're not the type he wants, he simply won't show up or hang out with you anymore. When he's present he's generous, when he's disinterested he simply disengages. You can't use him against his wish."
This conversation resulted after one of his followers shared a text she had received from a man that wanted to date her
