Many women fancy moving in with their partners and starting to play house. There are many reasons why couples choose to move in together, but this is a bad idea for many reasons. Here are some:


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1. marriage will not be on the table. If you want a wedding, it is crucial to avoid this. Moving in together means that you guys are already playing husband and wife, and he will see no need to commit to you. You are giving him anything he wants in a marriage.

2. if you are religious, then this will be a sin. Religious people should not move in together because the bible prohibits this—living together before marriage goes against the beliefs.

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3. it could ruin your relationship. moving in can ruin your relationship, especially if the relationship is new and made in haste. It is essential to wait until you know your partner well before deciding to move.

4. loss of personal space. When you move in with someone, you open your personal space to your lover. If you like coming home to a quiet home and just chilling, expect this to change. You will also have to change your decor style and what you want to eat.



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5. you could lose your independence. When you live alone, you are somehow independent and cater to yourself. Moving with your partner means that they will take some, if not all, the bills. When you live with someone, you also learn to depend on them for emotional support. When a breakup happens, you will be heartbroken and forced to start from scratch.

Moving in with your partner is a big step that you should consider thoroughly. Before making a move, talk about what each of you wants for the future.