Do not wife ladies who still beg for fare and airtime. She should only spend up to 24 hours in your house.

Don't marry a lazy girl that will ask you for transport money.

The advice they are giving you, that a man should give her transport money, already invokes the fact that the person you are dating or interested in is a poor girl.

So many people, more so girls, believe that men should be providers and hence are obligated by nature to provide even transport for them to see their boyfriends.

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The trend has grown, especially for girls in Nairobi who have made this a way of living in this expensive city of Nairobi and this economy.

So many ladies are lazy and don't want to work independently to make their own money. They want to live a fancy life ''soft life'' with men who have worked their entire lives to achieve success.

Many young girls say they can't build or start a life with a man from scratch for fear of men dumping them when they make it live.

Men, if a lady visits you, you must have a fixed schedule for how long she will stay in your house. Two to Three hours are more than enough for the lady in your home.

 A large percentage of Kenyan girls often ask for data money, hair money, hang-out money, transport fare, and food money, and some ask for rent.

They call and say they cannot pay half of the rent and all the whatnot. Yes, some ladies work hard, but a majority of them are far from that.

The ''Wababa'' thing is on the rise due to the harsh economy in the country, and as a result, young men stay single because they've got no money to satisfy all the needs of the ladies. That is way better for hardworking young men to remain single and achieve in life. Better safe than sorry

Unplug from liabilities if you want to be a builder.