Dating a married man is not something new in this era. 2023 has sprouted changes that even our ancestors could not dare to dream about. It has brought about things like SITUATIONSHIP, SNEAKY LINKS not forgetting FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. You might be surprised to know about 85% of girls aged 19-26 years are currently Dating a “KAMUBABA” in kenya.


The main reasons why young girls may choose to date a married man is because of privileges, protection and soft life manenoz. They tend to like all the good thing coming their way.

Waza News conducted an interview with a young lady who was dating a married man in her 20’s.

The lady whose name will not be exposed for defamation purposes revealed that she dated a man who was 15 years older than her.

“ At first I dint think it was a big deal dating a married man because I could get everything I wanted and I could go for trips that my friend could not afford. They guy had no demands really, he just wanted someone to keep him entertained. He used to pay for my house which was 40, 000ksh in a month, do shopping and give me some for upkeep. Things took a turn on me when I fell in love with him and I wanted us to make our relationship official.”


The lady went ahead to reveal that the wife always knew she was in the picture.

“His wife knew I was in the picture but she was always against it. The man told me he would marry me and leave his family for me. Obviously, I was naïve I believed it! what nonsense…sometimes I hate myself when I think about everything, I had to endure to be with him” she narrates.

“We parted ways after I told him I was pregnant… he dint want a child but he never said that loudly. He later made me move from my apartment to a smaller house and he disappeared. Later I saw online that he wedded his wife legally. Am still with my son, but I don’t talk with his dad.” She explained

Not only her but so many other ladies are suffering in the clutches of hungry “mafisi”

It’s time that ladies started to value themselves, dating a married man whose interest is only $ex and fun will only end up hurting you mentally and emotionally not forgetting wasting your time.